Let things take their natural course and not try to rush it.
As much as I can't take all the waiting and guessing and rationalising. I feel I'm so much more reserved now, but maybe I'm doing just fine.
'sides, it's not even time for ME to make a decision yet.
I just need the constant reminder that it'll turn out wrong if I take shortcuts.
More listeners, more advisers, less wet blankets. That'll do for now :D